Problems Which Come With Dating A Mexican..

hi there people pleasant back to our Station that which was that? 2 weeks in the past we crafted a movie exactly where Joss was discussing the down sides that include dating a German with dating him, exclusively well.. nicely these days we’re going to… are you presently ok? We have allergic reaction guy! right now we’re going to change it close to and I’m going to tell you every one of the problems that include dating a Mexican much more exactly, this specific one particular right here I’m so fearful of this video clip! I’m about to get offended in a major way however i know you love I and me know you confidentially love all those aspects of me you think so? I’m pretty sure each and every them… how dare you dude simply because like I stated last time: Before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys, i have a lot to say…. I love Mexicans. I love this one exclusively Mexico is definitely a diverse region and so are the individuals.. yes that’s really real we can be found in each and every shape, personality, color and form and then we don’t want to generalize nearly anything.. we’re not proclaiming that every Mexican does those ideas! when we say “problems”, these things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like bbw stranger chat in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn English and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true! be prepared to meet about 100 or 200 individuals 1 day that happen to be section of the household which are only section of the family! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the meals you will gain excess weight which is a result of a couple of things: first, of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! and also on top of that it’s challenging to refuse since Mexican foods are very delightful Oh yeah my god I overlook it so much… please send me Enchiladas Potosinas please! for me way too make sure you another reason why you’re going to get extra fat because of the meals is due to the fact it’s really cheap when compared with Germany real! In the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes., lets go to the next point now. I’m actually also delayed I’m like Mexican.. you’re 50 % Mexican that’s really a stereotype that we detest I detest when people tell me: you’re going to be delayed since you’re Mexican but I’m later all the time! even when I consider my greatest… that’s one thing I’ve fought with forever the following point i was required to get used to a good deal: you can find scared while traveling I don’t wish to travel in Mexico and even as soon as your spouse, in cases like this she, is traveling Mexico you, feel like: where are definitely the guidelines? where by will be the facial lines on the ground that let you know by which lane you will need to go and the holes guy oh my lord there is one particular streets I need to take whenever I go to my house they have a lot of pockets.. I acquired them my heart I’m like… when investing in with an intersection there is not really a principle saying who are able to go initial Sure! – additionally, there are no symptoms you usually inform me, the one from the biggest street could go initial but for some reason each of the Mexicans know the best places to drive it’s common sense bro! it was the most awful in Mexico City there was clearly 1 super active streets and we were actually originating from a small neighborhood and all sorts of the folks through the modest streets have been just going such as this around all of those other vehicles in Mexico Metropolis I saw living pass through my mind for true like 7 times along with the car owners of the ubers have been like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the elements right now? conversing with us eventually is definitely rather remarkable simply because Mexicans actually realize how to push in nuts circumstances! alright the following position is really a hilarious one particular but also a sad one particular.. at times for squares of potty paper is actually all that you’ll get where have you practical experience that? really! we were in a marketplace in Mexico Metropolis and i also wished for to see the lavatory which man in the front literally provided me with four squares of lavatory paper in this article, do your thing! and that i was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and so i shared with him: should i have another? I didn’t know it was a difficulty for you personally I mean in Germany you can get bathroom document right near the bathroom.. yeah in Mexico as well! yeah alright that doesn’t occur usually.. I have got to state this happened like 2 times in my opinion… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: number 1 or number two? If you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- ., and if you say one she gives you one square and. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is just how they are they’re this way… so don’t buy your dreams up… -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous, they’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine! and I’m not allowing him head out! ” that is a little a lot of people but… must i point out to you of the other day? Which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like.., when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at you and me literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore. -fine you might be like.. so when I began dating you I had been like “whoa a whole new w0rld! ” I actually have a theory although and I know this is about to cause me to sound insane but pick up me out I seem like plenty of this considering is molded by telenovelas. Don’t arrive to me! do you have viewed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the women are incredibly spectacular and they’re so jealous and they’re so like “he’s my own she’s never about to get him far from me! ” exactly why is this lady looking at you? this foolish $·Per cent·” footnote: guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly, it has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense… If you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes, i have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner! see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing is that in Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this? ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no, I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of resentment and disappointment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect that’s and sleepovers a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend? in Germany men can remain in the girlfriend’s house or ladies know the boyfriend’s house even if they’re below 18, most likely 16 they may remain at the friends of boyfriend’s house sinners! and in Mexico they think the most severe of men and women, that they are doing a bit of really terrible stuff that they are not able to do anywhere else probably the most persistent information I have from partners is young girls which can be really requesting me how do you make Janik understand that he are not able to stay? or how can I make my mothers and fathers fully grasp? it’s so difficult. -it’s hard for us too -sure both sides due to the fact in the beginning you couldn’t understand it that you were like “I don’t buy it” I found myself 22 or 23 yrs old if we started off dating and I was like “I’m so outdated and so i could not stay in exactly the same place as her” and my sister is even old and her partner couldn’t stay there I’m a grown-up. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! once once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small.. – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know if it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down below and if you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss!